The Giant Octopus in the Room

As usual, I took a break from all things creative because I work full-time and created two small humans who require most of my other time.  And, as previously mentioned, I'm slowly getting back small bits of 'creative' time (read: time not spent cleaning up poop, throwing away poop, or discouraging someone from eating poop).  True to our family style, I exhibit the 'go big or go home' tendency often.  This round hit me about a month or two ago, and a light bulb went off one day while I was feeling frustrated with and about time.  The giant octopus in the room was that being creative and having time to myself makes me happy and fun.  No one wants to tell you that you aren't fun, and I don't think that anyone but me really noticed, but at least in the room that is my thoughts, the giant octopus was the obvious fact that more fun has been necessary for a while.  Not family fun, I love spending time with our rag-tag bunch, but self-fun.

So I started doing fun things.  I bought a 3D printer (!!!YES!!), started substituting TED talks for the morning news a few days out of the week, began blogging again, started a new blog (not for public consumption yet), am still working on my book (it's actually in a Word document now), got all my photography up to date on Flickr (a few photos have been used under Creative Commons license on other websites), booked a family vacation at a horse farm, started getting more massages, started running again, and let the house be dirty, the laundry unfolded, the to-do list unfinished...because guess what?  Sometimes you just need to have FUN!

What do you do that is fun for YOU?  

Also, next time I will write in more detail about some of these fun things.  For now, this is all I could muster with the few minutes of energy I have left after Thumper and Flipper have gone to bed and the house is quiet.    

(Belated posting of 2014 entry) Just Another Day in Paradise--A Weekend of Nothing

After just posting about our new found alone time, I realized I never finished this post from last year as I was *interrupted* so forgive the abrupt ending.  Perhaps this demonstrates the difference a year makes as a parent of small beings.  I like to think this phase has passed.  I hope this brings a smile to your face!

Spring 2014: I don't have all that much to post about since we haven't done anything really exciting in the last few months but I am happy to report that life continues to be wonderful for Pancho, Legs, Thumper, Flipper, and Bambi.

Phil Vasser has some good ol' country lyrics that speak to me today :-)

"Just Another Day In Paradise"

The kids screaming, phone ringing

Dog barking at the mailman bringing

That stack of bills - overdue

Good morning baby, how are you?

Got a half hour, quick shower

Take a drink of milk but the milk's gone sour

My funny face makes you laugh

Twist the top on and I put it back

There goes the washing machine

Baby, don't kick it.

I promise I'll fix it

Long about a million other things

Well, it's ok. It's so nice

It's just another day in paradise

Well, there's no place that

I'd rather be

Well, it's two hearts

And one dream

I wouldn't trade it for anything

And I ask the lord every night

For just another day in paradise

Life with two kids and a dog sure is busy!  Even when we don't do anything it's busy!  Maybe this post will make you smile and reflect on the moments of silence in your own life, maybe it will help you understand just how much coffee you should probably have on-hand if we show up to visit :-)

Something is Shifting

Well here we are nearly one year later!  It seems that Pancho and I are having larger and larger bits of time to ourselves to pursue whatever we want.  Now, *larger* is relative.  Sometimes it's as big as fifteen minutes!  The universe is shifting or something big is happening which is contributing to a reawakening for the both of us.  Or, Flipper and Thumper are just growing up and Pancho and I (Legs) are getting in touch with our non-parent selves.

Over the past two months I have been a sponge for anything cool and interesting in the tech world.  I'm reading Fabricated about the prospects of 3D printing, sneaking in TED talks when I have the time, and pouring over articles discussing free expression online juxtaposed with national security and different realms of legality (i.e. should social media sites remove terrorism related content, who defines a terrorist group, should controversial content be removed at the request of a foreign government like "Daughters of India"?).  Every time I start my fifteen minutes of free time I go down the rabbit hole and pop my head up at the end to shout out to Pancho (who is down in his own rabbit hole creating an ap among other cool things), "Do you know they are 3D printing body parts out of human cells?  What did I do today?  I didn't build a new ear, I will tell you that!"

I am also writing my book.  The one I've been talking about writing for just about as long as I've been keeping journal entries about which I plan to write.  But one of these days, our fifteen minutes will turn in to thirty minutes and our creative spirits will soar!

My time is about up as Flipper is yelling "OUT!!" which means his nap is over and it's time get out my referee whistle and run laps around the house breaking up fights and picking up the same things over and over again until dinner.

In summary of the last year: we are still in Vancouver, we still love it here, we do not know where we are going next, and we won't find out until the fall.  Spring is here and we are enjoying the outdoors and our little family.  Until next time...

Best Reese's Pieces Cookies. Ever.

I experimented with my regular chocolate chip cookie recipe yesterday and made the best ever Reese's Pieces cookies!  I have my own recipe for the best ever chocolate chip cookies and basically just substituted Reese's Pieces for the chocolate chips so feel free to try both ways!

Ingredients:
1 cup all-purpose flour
1 cup whole wheat flour
1/4 cup ground flax seed
1 teaspoon baking soda
1 teaspoon salt
1 cup butter, softened
1/2 cup granulated sugar
1/2 cup packed brown sugar
1 teaspoon vanilla extract (sometimes I do up to 2 teaspoons, depends on how you like it!)
2 large eggs
1 1/2 cups Reese's Pieces or chocolate chips (I vary this as well, usually 1/2-3/4 a bag)

COMBINE  white and whole wheat flour,  flax seed, baking soda and salt in small bowl. Beat butter, granulated sugar, brown sugar and vanilla extract in a large bowl until creamy. Add eggs and beat.  Gradually mix in flour mixture. Stir in Reese's Pieces or chocolate chips. Drop by rounded tablespoon (or any size spoon you like) onto ungreased baking sheets. 

BAKE for 9 to 11 minutes or until golden brown. I like them chewy so I usually do closer to 9 minutes.

Enjoy!  Not a usual blog post for Legs, but things so tasty must be shared.  

Good things come to those who wait...

The plane, the truck, and the diplomatic visas all came.  The snow was cleared, the sun was shining, and thinking-ahead-Legs brought plenty of cookies for an inter-country drive.  Pancho's brother hit a skunk on the way to get us the morning we moved but aside from the lingering smell, everything went as planned!

So here we are about a month and a half later still trying to get our heads on straight.  No matter what anyone ever tells you, moving to another country is hard work, even if it's just Canada!  There are very few posts in the Foreign Service that don't provide housing and this is one of them so our first monster task was to find a place to live.  The Vancouver rental market moves fast (as in people fighting to turn in rental applications with deposit checks in hand at the first showing of a unit) and we lost a few places due to the additional processes required by the Consulate but then we found a perfect condo, in a perfect location, with a perfect landlord who was willing to wait.

We moved two weeks ago in and slept on a blow-up mattress before the IKEA beds we ordered arrived and hopefully at the end of this week our shipment from India will bring us our couch, plates, bed sheets, pans, and everything else we need to make life work.  We have settled into our routines and are starting to love life in the city more each day.

This experience has been incredible both professionally and personally.  The professional culture of this post is completely different from what I've experienced thus far and the work I am doing here is the reason we joined the Foreign Service.  I feel passionate again about my career and supported by amazing leadership--levels of support equal to what I felt from leadership at FEMA and which I knew I'd be lucky to find again.  The bigger question is whether or not it is realistic to find subsequent assignments with a similar professional culture.  We found out that I will bid mid-level for our third tour which means that we will not have another directed assignment.  A group of Career Development Officers direct entry-level generalists to their first two posts and after that, officers apply for positions where they are interested in serving.  There is still a bid list that is released when it is our group's turn to bid but we get to put in applications and lobby for jobs we want in places we'd like to go.  This new process will help us end up in a place that is best for our family at this point in our lives and allow me to plan my career in order to progress in the organization.  We still have another year here before our bid list is released so for now it's time to just live in the moment and enjoy Vancouver.

Pancho, Thumper, and Flipper are all doing great.  Thumper recently spent his nap time wadding up toilet paper and stuffing it up his nose until it started to bleed a little and he escaped his room to get more tissue.  Pancho found him and had to use tweezers to get all the tissue out of his nose. Start of a new nose stuffing phase?  I sincerely hope not.

Flipper is close to rolling over and has developed quite the personality.  He prefers to be carried everywhere and makes it very clear when he is the slightest bit uncomfortable.  He has also started to giggle which makes us all smile.

Pancho is officially our Relocation Support Specialist and is the most amazing husband and father I could ever have imagined.  He even showed up outside my work with fresh flowers on Valentines Day and took me ice skating while Hippie Grandma was in town.

We just got back from our first hike and our first suspension bridge.  We went to the lesser-known but free Lee Canyon suspension bridge and hiked around some beautiful waterfalls.  The weather has been pretty rainy but spring is definitely here and the flowers are starting to bud!  Until next time...

Twin Falls at Lee Canyon

West End near Stanley Park

There's water everywhere in Vancouver!

Even the rocks are happy

The Waiting Game..or 'Just In Time' Traveling?

Thumper and I (Legs) went to the library tonight and the first book he picked was so incredibly appropriate, I just had to blog and write my own version.

Oh The Places You'll Go
Dr. Seuss

"You can get so confused
that you'll start in to race
down long wiggled roads at a break-necking pace
and grind on for miles across weirdish wild space,
headed, I fear, toward a most useless place.
The Waiting Place...

...for people just waiting.
Waiting for a train to go
or a bus to come, or a plane to go
or the mail to come, or the rain to go
or the phone to ring, or the snow to snow
or waiting around for a Yes or a No
or waiting for their hair to grow.
Everyone is just waiting.

Waiting for the fish to bite
or waiting for wind to fly a kite
or waiting around for Friday night
or waiting, perhaps, for their Uncle Jake
or a pot to boil, or a Better Break
or a string of pearls, or a pair of pants
or a wig with curls, or Another Chance.
Everyone is just waiting."

We have done more waiting in the last three months than I can remember doing in the last few years! After hours and hours of time spent getting things "in order," we still find ourselves waiting for things out of our control. On the eve of our supposed departure. So, I add this, Dr. Seuss:

Waiting for diplomatic visas to be done
Or a UPS plane to come
Or a delivery truck to load
Or the icy cold snow to be cleared from the road
Or housing to go through
Or to finally stop moving to a place that is new.
We are just waiting.

The few boxes we have are packed but we don't have our passports--they are en route from DC with our diplomatic visas. UPS overnight to arrive tomorrow, customer pick-up so we can get them quicker. Our housing can't be reserved until we have our visas in hand. Brother in-law is ready to help us move but only has the weekend. Post will change the reservation to Monday if the visas aren't here by noon tomorrow, but then we will have to leave all our things behind until someone can help. Maybe I can still fit the one pair of heels I found at Fred Meyer just today (from a selection of eight size nine women's shoes) in our car next to the two suits I bought the day we drove two hours to a mall only to have the trip cut short by the need to complete more *urgent* paperwork. Thanks to a Kinkos' printer and the copy shop's scanner.

So, if the winter storms across the nation don't affect the arrival of our visas, if post can change our housing to take us Friday or Saturday, and if there are no problems between, then we are moving tomorrow morning. But we are tired of waiting and wandering and I can't put my clothes in my suitcase yet for the sole reason that I like how it feels to have them hung in a closet and not knowing if we are leaving tomorrow, or next week, or never, makes me only a little crazy.

This is my rant. I hope to write from Vancouver tomorrow. And will eat more cookies and stare at my closet of clothes hanging nicely in hangers if our passports don't come.

Three months and a baby later

I thought our last blog post gave some meaning to the blog name, Drifting World Citizens, but it turns out the last three months have the cross-country road trip beat!

First I should finish where I left off in October. We left New Mexico the morning of the hot air balloon festival in Albuquerque and got to see hundreds of balloons scatter as the sun came up. We drove on to Arizona and headed south through an amazing mountain pass where we stopped just in time for Thumper to throw up all over Pancho! The drive ended at my good friend's home surrounded by cactus and wild horses. It was so fun to see such a welcoming face. After Coolidge, AZ we headed up to Kingman for a night of rest before our big Grand Canyon adventure!

Hot Air Balloon Festival
Albuquerque, NM

Beautiful pass through AZ

Real Cactus!!
Southern AZ

The Federal government, and thereby the national park at the Grand Canyon, was still shut down so we found our way to the Hualapai Indian Reservation and braved unseasonably cold weather to walk along the southern rim of the Grand Canyon. It was on my bucket list for a reason and we were not disappointed.

No caption necessary.  Amazing.

From the a Grand Canyon we traveled south again before heading north up to the Pacific Northwest for the last leg of our journey. We stopped to see good friends at Camp Pendleton and family outside of Oakland. I won Thumper a purple Halloween bear from a claw machine in a Denny's somewhere between California and Oregon, now his favorite long past the holiday, and we stayed with more family in Oregon. By this time Thumper and Pancho had had enough road trip...while pregnant Legs could have kept going for days! Thumper asked over and over when he could get out of the car and we told him once we get to Washington he could get out. The second we announced we had crossed the Columbia River, he yelled from the back seat, I can get out now!!! I want to get out!!

San Clemente, CA

Washington State at last!

We stopped to surprise my mother in Eastern Washington and then drove to our *final* destination. I can't begin to describe the relief we felt coming home. The last year has been a hard one for us and driving across open land with no timeline to arrive in the arms of friends and family has been healing in more ways than one.

Columbia River

Home.

Now, on to what we have been doing since October! We settled in for about a week and then took a bunch of small trips to visit more friends and family. Legs found a daytime water aerobics class full of old ladies who were beyond excited for baby. Thumper played in parks and was spoiled by many a grandparent. Pancho did a 21 mile day hike in trail shoes and too much snow at the Enchantment Lakes and hiked locally at least twice per week. We enjoyed the time we had just as a family of three until December 17th when Flipper made us an even happier family of four!

Flipper, you might ask? Yes. Big Foot sounds too mean although it is more accurate. Flipper was born with giant feet that extend into the text on his commemorative footprint certificate. He moves them just as much as Thumper did but has a hard time fitting into his age appropriate outfits because his feet are so long.

In the past few weeks we have stayed somewhere new every four days and after three months of 'drifting,' we cannot wait to settle into our temporary housing in Vancouver. Yes, temporary. It saves us from having to line up housing prior to our arrival and heck, three months in one place sounds like heaven even if we do have to move again at the end of it.

So, we live up to our blog name and have come full circle from where we left off two years ago. I just celebrated my oh-shit-I-turn-30-next-year birthday but I've got high hopes for 29. Our experiences this past year have made our little family stronger than ever and through some trial and error, we know what our boundaries are as they relate to work and life. What a ride!