Monday, February 25, 2013

Three Weeks In...We Got This

We are adjusting extremely well to life in India.  There are many times throughout a typical day where I stop and stare at someone or something, trying to figure out if I'm actually seeing what I think I'm seeing, but for the most part life is fun.  This morning while I was taking Bambi for his usual walk, I saw a lady heading up a dirt path, leaving a partially constructed building.  She looked to be some type of hired help, like a nanny or housekeeper, and, a child, who I assume to be her son, came running out after her.  He was screaming through sobs and gasps that he wanted his mama to stay at home with him and play all day long.  (I don't actually have a clue what he was saying.  He was maybe 2 years old and was probably trying to speak Hindi or Telugu.)  Since we're sort of going through a similar phase with Thumper, I was curious to see what she would do to calm her little half pint and how she would send him back into their dilapidated house a happy little camper.  Much to my amazement, she picked up the closest stick she could find and threw it as hard as she could at the little boy.  The Hindi rolled off her tongue with fire, and that little boy wasn't quite sure if he should dodge the stick, or let it hit him for having the audacity to ask his mother to stay home.  Luckily the stick missed him anyway, he hurried away crying, and scampered into their shell of a house.  She, on the other hand, nodded and strolled by me as if this were a perfectly normal occurrence.

On a much more serious note, the city suffered quite a tragedy last week.  We were perfectly safe throughout the event; however, it was quite scary having something like this happen so close to 'home'.  It was touching to see many people offering aid, comfort, and whatever resources they could to help victims of the bomb blasts.  I've heard many stories about people lining up to donate blood at hospitals, including outreach on Facebook for specific types of blood in short supply.  It is important to remind ourselves that this is not a normal occurrence here, and the local population was likely just as frightened as we were.  During terrorist attacks like this one, cell service is often cut off to prevent further communication between terrorists and also prevent further explosive detonations via cell phone triggers.  As a result, it may be difficult for us to contact everyone immediately to let people know that we are okay, however, the internet proved very useful for notification purposes last week.  If you weren't part of the email list or on our Facebook page, and want to be, please let us know.

Happy Travels!

Pancho

Saturday, February 16, 2013

5k in Hyderabad

Well we managed to get out of bed bright and early this morning for some much needed exercise!  We joined some colleagues and a group of expats working for Deloitte and did our first 5k in Hyderabad!  The sun was still rising and it was already hot out...I understand why the race started at 7AM.  Unfortunately our jogger stroller is on a boat somewhere between the US and India so we put Thumper in the backpack and tried to jog for the first mile.  Thumper wasn't having much fun bouncing around and pretty quickly started tapping Pancho's back saying "all done Dada, all done!"  So we walked the rest of the way but it was just as fun.  

The race was along the Hussain Sagar Lake which is one of Hyderabad's 'places to see' and it was beautiful.  The smell was a little over powering at times and once you get to the shore you quickly realize that this lake is not for swimming but from afar it is wonderful.  In the middle of the lake there is a large statue of Buddha and I believe there are boats you can hire to take you out to the center....we aren't quite up for that yet.

Before the race started a few Indians tried taking pictures of Thumper with their cell phones and I politely said, "no photos, please."  It wasn't working very well and I was just getting frustrated.  We had been warned that this happens and had decided that we'd rather people not photograph him without our consent.  Then the race started.  I wouldn't be surprised if our pictures are on Facebook pages throughout the country.  People were taking pictures of us left and right.  People who looked like they were the race organizers, people in plain clothes, there were video cameras from news stations that jogged with us a while as we nervously smiled and kept going.  We have now decided that we will go crazy trying to keep Thumper out of photos...and have succumbed to India's curiosity.  Look for us on TV24 :-)  I did discover that my Telugu is much better when I'm angry and I got my point across with one photographer who just wouldn't stop even after we gave him a few polite smiles.

All in all, the race was fun and it was great to get out and see more of the city.  Below are some photos from the morning.

Backing up a little, we have finally adjusted to India time and have pretty much settled into our apartment.  We won't get our stuff from Seattle for about a month or so but we are slowly acquiring things that make this place more like home...a mango tree, a guava tree...you know.  We also found a great cheap framing store and just got a bunch of photos framed so hopefully we'll get them on the walls soon.

We have hired a driver as well as a housekeeper who helps watch Thumper and cooks South Indian food twice per week.  They are both awesome so far and life is so much easier with their help.  Hiring people to help us has been a challenge for us personally but it really is culturally how it works.  Not to mention, I am terrified of driving here and there are no street signs or addresses so without help we would be in trouble. 

Pancho, Thumper, and I have crossed the street on foot FOUR times by ourselves!  I will get a picture on here soon that shows why that's such a big deal.  Here is an example of what the roads in our area look like.  Imagine crossing I-90 one lane at a time by simply putting your hand out and hoping the buses stop.  Okay, they're only going about 40mph but it's crazy nonetheless.  

I love my job and am slowly getting up to speed with my interviews.  I'm doing about half of what my colleagues are currently doing but you have to start somewhere!  I've done one full day of Telugu interviews and am starting to get back into the language groove.  Our driver laughed a little when I told him I would be doing interviews in Telugu :-)

We are doing great and are really enjoying all that India has to offer!  It has definitely been the biggest cultural shock I've experienced and I'm sure there will be both good and bad days to come but for now we can't believe we get paid to do this!

Legs


Hussain Sagar Lake

Buddha Statue

Let the race begin!

Along the route...

Public Urination...totally common

Trail next to the lake.  We were running on the road.

Also along the route...don't worry, it's non ionizing radiation.

Around 2009 we made a 'visulization' list of where we wanted to be in the next couple of years.  It included having a baby, moving somewhere hot, moving somewhere with palm trees, living abroad, and having a motorcycle (that one was Pancho's and he's pretty close to convincing me that it's safe???).   Look where we are now...Thumper came, India is hot and there are palm trees.  Pancho almost has a motorcycle.

Note the thick black bunch of cables entering the top floor bedroom in the green building.


Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Before Landing We Will Be Fumigating The Plane

We have arrived in Hyderabad, and may well have stepped right off of planet Earth and landed somewhere between Jupiter and Saturn.  As our plane prepared for landing, an announcement was made over the intercom  "As per India country regulations we will be fumigating the plane prior to landing.  If you are concerned with any health risks related to pesticides, please use your shirt or a cloth to cover your mouth."  Legs and I looked at each other puzzled, wondering if we heard that correctly, and then sure enough a flight attendant came walking down the aisle with two bug bombs filling the cabin with pesticide.  Legs and I frantically reached for things to cover Thumper's face, smothering the poor kid with with a napkin and sweatshirt as he squirmed around, probably thinking that mom and dad had finally lost it.  Since we were confined to our airplane seats we just sat and inhaled the pesticides and had our first realization that we are definitely not in the U.S. anymore.

India is an absolute mishmash of stunning beauty and, well, trash.  There are 'landfills' all over the place and people, generally hired help dressed in immaculate and vibrant saris, in the area carry trash to the landfill and throw it in.  It seems like everywhere you are confronted with every type of extreme.  Only in India can you find a massive mansion overlooking a giant pile of burning trash while children play around the garbage-fire, occasionally picking something up and doing what all kids do...put it in their mouth!

For the most part, people have been extremely friendly here, and not in the 'traveling to Mexico where everyone just wants a few pesos from you' kind of friendly.  Most people seem genuinely interested in us crazy white people that have come to visit their wild little piece of land.  The consulate community, both Americans and locally hired staff, has been absolutely amazing in welcoming us, and providing resources to get us adjusted as quickly as possible.  This will certainly be a learning experience for Legs, Thumper, Bambi, and I, which is exactly what we wanted.  To be out of our element, nervous or scared at times, yet still wholeheartedly accept this new way of life and embrace the human connections we make along the way.

There aren't many, but here a few pictures of the area...

Some of the urban sprawl of Hyderabad 

A nice little park

Thumper and I walking down the street

An infamous Tuk Tuk, which Thumper says every time he sees one
Happy Travels!

Pancho